TAME YOUR ADVICE MONSTER--how to advise and not regret it

 

 

In this episode I explore the intricacies of giving advice at work. I draw attention to the unhelpful Gratuitous Advice Syndrome and damage it can cause. 

The approach to advice-giving rests on individual experience and aims to be compassionate, considerate, and kind.

The episode begins by discussing how giving advice at work requires artful mastery, empathy, and finesse.

I delve deeper by sharing a case study of Aaron, who struggles with time management, and showcases how effective advice can be rendered without falling prey to instant solutions.

I stress the importance of active and attentive listening, asking clarifying questions, avoiding judgmental attitudes, and offering personalized guidance.

I highlight the potential benefits of offering high-quality professional advice, as it enhances influence in the workplace, bolsters co-worker's confidence, and bestows unique insights.

However, I warn how the Syndrome monster' can undermine one's impact if it oversteps boundaries, ignores context, or adopts a dictatorial approach.

This episode invites you to master the ability to offer constructive advice, empowering others to find solutions independently. It emphasises the critical role of self-reflection and collaborative problem-solving in creating an encouraging work environment.

For more work wisdom join me Andrew next Monday for another episode!

Also, have a look at my book 'Happiness at Work' available on myhappinessatwork.com and Amazon. Stay tuned at 50ways.site for more podcasts in this intriguing series.